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Online Dating Part II ~ Setting up Profiles - what we've found #onlinedating

1/5/2015

How has dating become so different? It is a strange dance of finding your way through the crazies.

This is a series of blog posts. It is a bit of an introduction to things I have learned and found out about dating. I hope you find this series: useful, intriguing, and funny. I am no expert and merely thought this would be a great post for the New Year.

This is merely my point of view and opinions of me and other contributors. Please note the user names have been altered slightly and no profile pictures with persons faces have been used because I wasn’t given permissions.

Contributing author MK

If you haven’t read part one “Where to start” click -- HERE

What’s in a name?

Picking out your name should be something you put thought into. It’s really about what you are trying to attract and who you are portraying yourself as.

I saw one that said shooter. Now every picture was with alcohol, so I am guessing that kind, but yeah…let’s think about our word choices.

The thugs that really are babies, smh, really? Names that have: cash, killer, skilz, dbillz, etc.

Guys that use their full name and birth date. Ex: GregoryPeck7473

Ok. So I know your name is Gregory Peck & you were born on July 4th in 73 (easily verified since your age is displayed) Am I the only one that doesn't trust the internet? Seriously, why not just post your social and take a picture of your bank statements while you're at it.

Or the guy with sexual innuendoes: magicboner, hardnlong, (perhaps not thick #idontknow *laughs*), Jackoff6969, Kittylicker, snatchxx… Usually a pic of the stereotypical DB, shirtless or a nerd...

Vanilla ice, dressed in a pinstripe suit with the -"I'm trying to look tough look" on your face and tag line “Shark Tank”. Oh wow. You pulled out all the stops here...

The men who are “still in college”. The name- big snooze. Is that a synopsis to what I get to look forward to. Is it a warning label. Were you drunk when you made this name? Or pick that picture. Seriously- you look like you are high on bath salts or part of the walking dead. And your- "not too sure." I'm not either after seeing this...

AmIreally40
Lunatic
GingerAlien
Takeoutthetrash
Datingsux

The #myusernameissolongitlookslikeahadtagandmakesnosense name. You lost me at duck...

Picking a user name that makes you sound horrible. Umm. I see you're tatted. But why label yourself a monkey. Gets me to thinking if you are hairy or make ape noises during sex... Tattoomnky

Muttmunkey (kinda goes with above; just my mind goes somewhere it shouldn’t)

Publishing your workplace for all to see (men who stand in front of fire trucks). Hell, I'm a sucker for a man in uniform. But you just showed me and a bazillion other strangers what town you work for... Not smart... Side note also your uniforms, don’t forget to blur your name.

Tag lines

See additional fun tags below and just think for a moment would you really want to open a profile for any of the tag lines listed? If you need to put something like “no cheaters” or “this site doesn’t work” it conveys nothing but negativity.

Bad:

Strong women scare weak men.
I was indecisive, now I am not so sure.
Heyyyyyyyy
Hiiiiii
Hello
No cheaters please.
Get me off this site.
Does this site even work?
I am giving this one more try.
This thing is brken.
Were R all the gud woman? (far away from you buddy LOL)
Not too sure
It places the lotion on its… (yeah creeper alert)
Not too shabby
Anyone good with dog ear problems?
Why am I doing this again?
Headline
No Drama please (or any variation of this)
Sometimes you only have messed up choices

"MY NAME IS GEORGE. I'M UNEMPLOYED AND LIVE WITH MY PARENTS.” (The person is joking but still it’s dumb because this is mostly what the viewer will see)

“If someone compliments you, at least Thank them" (ps his name is I_smooth obviously not so much…lol)

Good:

Let’s leave each other wanting more
Looking for my laid back country girl
Living in the moment
Outdoorsy guy looking
Looking for a partner in crime
Let’s have some fun in the sun
Ready set let’s roll (makes me think of a song)
Live, laugh, enjoy…it’s that simple
Just looking (this is actually honesty)
Bring balance to my life
Love story inside, let’s see how it ends

Picture funnies

Pictures. We all have a type and we judge a book by their cover, like books! Do you like blondes, or facial hair, unconsciously some people are attracted to someone with similar features. There is a study about this, as I mentioned in my prior post.

So on to the funny and worst pictures. And honestly this is from our perspective, but really ladies this goes for you too. I have heard a lot that women have similar dumb pictures. Get a thread of common sense. There are so many more, but this is just the tip of the iceberg.

The angry, constipated or prison look. Smile!

And to add to that, there was a man in a prison. His profile said: people don’t judge me badly because I am in a prison…um you are in PRISON! Idiot! No just nooo.

Also, many in that prison orange. No, please think about the color you are wearing.

The man taking a picture in the rearview, during a snowstorm, while driving. Yes, we want you—please endanger our lives too!

Sideways man. There is a thing called rotate…yeah the little arrow thingy-that.

A shoe. No really I have seen just a shoe and trust me it was small if it was meant to mean they were, um, well hung, because the shoe… Well you can see for yourself, size 7?

Yum! I love moldy floors!!

Bedroom eyes. Ok, mostly you look like you are squinting or constipated or…well, let’s not get too gross here. Most of you can’t pull that off. Let’s leave it at that.

A head cut off and pasted on a baby, in peanut butter, or on a muscled man…just no.

A man in a penguin suit, captain America or other non-business suits. Sometimes I think these memories are great to the person posting, but we weren’t there. Remember that.

The back of your head.

Every picture is blurry.

Pictures with stupid / gross things like mold and toilet brushes or trash in the background…be mindful!

The underneath shot. I don’t need to see your double chin or nose hairs.

Bathroom selfie that looks so sterile or psycho. The lighting is terrible in there.

The cat picture!This is clearly a loon if you read their profile. I already reported them before.

Do’s and Don’ts
in written profile

Dont’s

#1 Do not put: Ask or ask me. The point of the site is to be able to look at a person that is potential and say hmm, we have “this” in common. Ok, now I have something to talk about.

Ask? Ask what? Ask why you are such an arrogant douche bag? Get off your lazy ass and write a couple sentences.

Can you speak English? Are you literate. These are pluses for me. If you cannot string a sentence or write like this: I lke 2 due evrytin n sht hnd & never use wds or punctuation or captals or speelchek. Ur cute. No. Write like an adult.

#2 The first thing you say is you don’t want drama or baggage. Life is full of drama. We all have these things; if you don’t, you are lying or were just born, because even my 6 year old is a drama queen.

#3 Your post is all negative things to say about others or your experience on the site so far. Keep your page upbeat. No one wants to be dragged into your pit of despair (10 points if you can name that movie!).

#4 Everything in your profile is a joke. Like life is a joke. Are you really going to take me serious? A relationship serious?

#5 You post that you need help raising your children. Yes, I have seen that.

#6 You say: I will fill it out later, but you have been on this site forever with the same pictures. Pretty sure you have gotten older.

#7 You have your age listed as one thing and then tell us in your profile you are another. Strike one!

#8 You have a blank profile. No age, height, nothing. I am not messaging or responding to you. If you have so little time to put into this then you will have just as much time to put into me.

Do

#1 Ask a friend to help you edit your page, but make sure it is you. If you are male have a female friend and vice versa if you can or want. Just an idea.

#2 Sometimes someone will tell you that another picture of you is better. Hey try it out! Anytime you update your profile you are going to be noticed on the site.

#3 Be interesting. We are all looking for attractive, but smart, funny, charismatic, etc…these are all part of a package. Your package.

#4 Honest. Be yourself. Don’t play a role and be what you think someone else is looking for. Why waste anyone’s time, especially yours. Even causal dating and sex, trust me it is better when you have a connection with someone you have actual things in common with.

In short:

Put meaningful / good pictures on your profile.

Ask for help from friends.

Be yourself and fill out the profile at least moderately.

If you were once wondering why no one was looking at you, perhaps this helps you a little bit. No one wants someone to be what they want; they want you to be you!

Up next in the blog series: messages and using the sites to their potential…

Some Dating Site links:

OK CUPID:
www.okcupid.com/home

Plenty of FISH (POF):
http://www.pof.com/

Zoosk:
www.zoosk.com

Match.com (join for free):
www.match.com

E-harmony(5 days free):
http://www.eharmony.com/

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Online Dating Part I ~ Where to start #onlinedating

1/3/2015

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How has dating become so different? It is a strange dance of finding your way through the crazies.

This is a series of blog posts. It is a bit of an introduction to things I have learned and found out about dating. I hope you find this series: useful, intriguing, and funny. I am no expert and merely thought this would be a great post for the New Year.

This is merely my point of view and opinions of myself and other contributors.

Care Less about Wealth and Youth

Great quote!!

“As gender equality rises in any given society, men focus less on seeking mates with youth and beauty and women become less interested in rich, powerful men”

So think about this, men want a pretty face. When that fades—guess what you are older too! You get to start over looking for a pretty face, but you are not as “pretty” yourself, no offense. Also many women want or have kids, and most men have been there done that.

Women want wealth and stability. Sure, but realize this—men are at work and here are two key things to think about. First, most cheating occurs at work. Second, if they are working all the time they won’t be spending time with you. Additionally, everyone needs down time. They want guy time, you need girl time…your time with them will be limited even more once children are entered into the equation. Remember wealth, status, and things could be gone at any moment - whether a: fire, bankruptcy, divorce, robbery, etc.

The main questions you should focus on are the three D’s: drive, dreams and desires. Do you think you are on the same page? This covers everything from: work / life balance, family, financial goals, and sex.

What to expect on the sites?

I cannot say I dated much before. I am very old school. Men should treat you with respect (and vice versa, what goes around). I am a lady and deserve to be treated as such. That being said, you need to realize many people on these sites are sad pathetic creatures.

#1 THE TROLL. They Troll the sites (and multiple) sending the same old dumb message in hopes for a “bite” to their pathetic attempt. They admit they put no effort into it, nor really care about it.

#2 THE FAKE, slimy, snot-nosed, probably under aged teens or 40-year-old virgin type. They send sexting type messages and hope get some in return. Or porn / virus’ sort of irony with that one. I will also list catfish under here.

#3 THE COLLECTOR – a person who like “the fake” wants pictures or merely wants to serial date. Or wants to just chat to as many people as possible with no intention of ever meeting.

#4 TOO NICE/PUSHOVER – You’ve met these people in real life. Some are the 40-year-old virgin. They lack confidence and truly try to fit what you want, instead of what they are looking for.

#5 ANGRY GUY – this one gets their own category for me. About 25% of the people on these sites are jaded. They send angry and hateful messages to you even if you have never sent a single message to them.

#6 NORMAL / SEMI-NORMAL—this is a two-fer. I say this because some appear normal until you meet them. You can hide a lot behind a: computer, text, and phone.

Personally…

So, who am I? I was a love at first site “naive” type – married and faithful to the wrong person for far too long. That being said, I have two beautiful children, and I’m a stronger person for everything I’ve been through. Again, I know who I am.

That is the first issue I am noticing on the site. People are lost or not portraying themselves for who they are. I am honest and sure have faults, but no one needs to have that smack them in the face. But I also read profiles and can normally spot incompatibility or things I can overlook. We all have our “things”. Things that drive us nuts or were a sticking point in a prior relationship.

Something needs to be said for the people that can carry a conversation. I text in shorthand, but I get annoyed at people that cannot talk to me like a real person. And when they are half talking or clearly talking to far too many people at once - I just sign off. I think I am pretty interesting.

I know about a TV show on MTV called "Catfish". I have never seen. So many people talk about it actually happening on the sites. The people on the website try to force you right off the bat to prove you are real. It’s almost laughable if not annoying. I have found a couple fake accounts myself. A cute guy, I message them and immediately I got a porn link. I assume a fake account. (Shrugs) Whatever, I guess I have thicker skin. Being on Twitter I have had so many weirdos and whatnot. Not much gets to me. I also don’t understand the point of it, but I am noticing a trend lately where I don’t get things.

I watched a documentary awhile ago that stated mates are attracted to a person that looks similar to them. Their facial structure specifically. I found it interesting. I tried to locate the documentary; however I couldn’t find it online.

I can understand the concept on some level—to carry on strong genes. My heritage is Swedish and the genes are strong. It’s yet another unconscious natural selection type thing. Of course there are outliers to this, but we are seeking a mate that matches us in so many other ways, why not their appearance.

In Short:

Be Yourself /Know who you are

Focus on the 3 D’s, not wealth and beauty

Communicate clearly

Be positive and don’t let the bad accounts get under your skin

Next up in the blog series, setting up profiles…(you might cry you will be laughing so hard)

Links I would recommend:

http://healthland.time.com/2012/09/07/when-men-stop-seeking-beauty-and-women-care-less-about-wealth/

http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/dating-site-matches-face-mates-find-love-alike/story?id=13206411

http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/relationships/why-do-good-people-cheat/#.VKifMHtH2DM

Some Dating Site links:

OK CUPID:
www.okcupid.com/home

Plenty of FISH (POF):
http://www.pof.com/

Zoosk:
www.zoosk.com

Match.com (join for free):
www.match.com

E-harmony(5 days free):
http://www.eharmony.com/

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#SatSpanks Saving Lady J #excerpt #flogging

11/7/2014

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This is a book that has been in progress for awhile now. Saving Lady J is about a masochistic Switch. I want to put the finishing touches on it. Here is a scene with Jamie and her Dom Chris.

Our first real session was one I’d remember well. He wanted to test out a new toy on me, a flogger that had many chain-links of metal instead of leather. I was physically shaking as I knelt down for him. He was intimidating on his own, but wielding a medieval looking weapon I nearly fainted as it crashed down on my back and ass.

“Sir!” I gasped, as the breath coated the thin air that escaped my lungs. My fingers attempted to claw at the hardwood floor, but not gaining any purchase.

“Yes, little one.” His gravelly voice hinted at his arousal, as his weapon of torture met my skin again.

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Grave Hauntings: Where Sexy and Sinful Meets Dark and Chilling #free everywhere

11/4/2014

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Just in time to send a shudder up your spine, Grave Hauntings has a mixture of scary, sexy, and downright sizzlingly HOT short stories. The talented authors in this group worked excruciatingly hard to make your evenings seem a touch creepier and the corners feel a bit darker. There’s something for everyone. From vampires and wolves, to ghosts and zombies, to death dealers – well, as far as those are concerned, you might find a friend to hide behind.

This may be a season of fun and excitement for the children as they imbibe too much sugar, but we feel the adults need a Halloween jolt as well. Come celebrate the true Halloween spirit with us.

Grave Hauntings Links

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Smashwords

https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/484205

Barnes and Noble

http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/grave-hauntings-suzy-ayers/1120557834?ean=2940046229301

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Blood Moon Today! Oct 8th #ELEMENTS #excerpt

10/8/2014

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Sara has been living in the Thomas’ world and is now married to him and a Princess. One of his brothers, Damien, has become close to Sara and she trusts him more than anyone else at this point in the story—even more than her own husband. Thomas has three brothers and there is a lust spell cast on her. Lucinda the Queen is one of her enemies…a very powerful one.

‘I’m sorry Sara. I’ve failed you,’ Damien’s voice was weakening.
“I will do it if you don’t kill: Damien, Samuel, Thomas, Sienna, James or Ella,” [Sara] said making a bold, brave move. She was scared to admit her pregnancy, but only a big thing could change this.
“Ella?” Lucinda walked over to her. She flipped her wrist at the Sorcerer to release her.
Sara thought it was Argon that was holding her.
“Is she?” she asked the Sorcerer. “Are you?” She glared at Sara. “How did I not know?” she growled and looked at Damien.
“I cast a protection spell as soon as I found out,” he squeaked out.
Sara gasped and whipped her head to look at him.
“Well, well, well.” Lucinda smiled. “You didn’t even tell the mother? No doubt Thomas would’ve said no. If he was bound how could he have?” she grumbled again.
“I told him I was pregnant, well indirectly, the day I went to get the paper signed,” Sara explained. “He said I kept touching my stomach. So I was cautious not to do that. Please release Damien, he was only trying to protect her, me. Aren’t we valuable assets?” Lucinda looked at Sara hard and waved the Sorcerer off.
Sara ran to him choking on the floor.
He slipped the book into her hands. It remained cloaked.
‘Sam, do you love me?’ She didn’t look at him behind her.
‘Sara, how is this possible?’ Samuel asked.
‘Just take a step back when I stand.’ She told him. ‘Damien, don’t move.’ She set the book back into his hands.
‘But?’ Damien went to protest.
“You alright?” she asked, hugging Damien during the exchange and she felt Sam’s anger. ‘Steady Sam,’ she warned.
She stood, but as she did, Sam bound her hands. Sara looked at him. Betrayal stabbed deeply in her soul. A tear ran down her cheek. All she wanted was for this terrible dream to be over. A dream! Could this be a dream? She closed her eyes.
‘Sam, you’ve betrayed me and my children; if I die because you chose the wrong side who is going to raise them. They’ve poisoned Thomas. I can’t even look at you.’ She kept them closed.
Her anger began to grow. Heat built within her core, as she heard James’ cries, as she thought about Thomas’ unconscious body, her sister—her last family from The Before World in peril as well. All because of her tattoo, because of her powers. Her fists clenched hard behind her and her eyes squeezed tighter. Her stomach churned in tormented pain and anger.
‘Sara!’ Damien’s voice came into her head. ‘Sara, what are you doing?’
Sara heard a gasp.
Ageatha screamed, “Oh my God! Look at the moon it’s turning blood red! Is she doing that Argon?”
‘Notice who she called for, Sam, not you, she doesn’t love you. She was using you.” Sara’s words were like vipers stinging him hard. And as she opened her eyes even Lucinda looked frightened and stumbled back, away from Sara.

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ELEMENTS Re-release #fantasy #romance Amazon Bestseller's now in #paperback! and #freebie

10/7/2014

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Finally, you can buy both book 1 and book 2 in my fantasy romance series, ELEMENTS, in paperback. I am so excited. I re-edited these books at 87k words each.

I have attached all links including the ebook links as well if you prefer to read your books on an E-Reader.

Thanks for stopping by!

Suxy

Princess Sara Rosen must learn her role as Thomas’ wife and juggle being a new mother. Happy to be where she thinks she’s meant to be, believing she’s completed her destiny. However her fate and her dark dreams have barely begun.

Her powers have grown exponentially; as she uncovers a frightful new burden she must bear. Additionally, she questions Thomas’ fidelity and her own. Trusting no one and not even herself at times, she must protect a new secret and her family.

Continue on the journey with Sara and the Rosen family in this: sci-fi, futuristic, romantic fantasy… in the name of love, loss, and magic.

This book includes: Shapeshifters, visions, premonitions, magic, spells, poisons, Sorcerer’s, a Wizard, Witches, death, sexual situations, and is considered to be a book for adults 18+. This book contains 86,000 words.

US: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00D0LUO7U?ie=UTF8&camp=213733&creative=393177&creativeASIN=B00D0LUO7U&linkCode=shr&tag=suzya-20&=books&qid=1372346947&sr=1-3&keywords=suzy+ayers

UK: http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00D0LUO7U/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_rwJOrb0GQC78W

CA: http://www.amazon.ca/dp/B00D0LUO7U/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_4M.Ttb1C5ADWM/186-5458855-6473457

Createspace:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1494239817?ie=UTF8&camp=213733&creative=393177&creativeASIN=1494239817&linkCode=shr&tag=suzya-20&qid=1388804102&sr=8-5&keywords=suzy+ayers

Miranda’s Amulet Book Description:
Princess Sara Rosen must learn her role as Thomas’ wife and juggle being a new mother. Happy to be where she thinks she’s meant to be, believing she’s completed her destiny. However her fate and her dark dreams have barely begun.
Her powers have grown exponentially; as she uncovers a frightful new burden she must bear. Additionally, she questions Thomas’ fidelity and her own. Trusting no one and not even herself at times, she must protect a new secret and her family.

Continue on the journey with Sara and the Rosen family in this: sci-fi, futuristic, romantic fantasy… in the name of love, loss, and magic.

This book includes: Shapeshifters, visions, premonitions, magic, spells, poisons, Sorcerer’s, a Wizard, Witches, death, sexual situations, and is considered to be a book for adults 18+. This book contains 86,000 words.

Sexy Holiday Bites is where you will first learn about Damien, Sara, and Thomas. It’s a free book of flash fiction that features voyeurism and (gasp) sex. Grab it and enjoy all the stories from these hot authors year round.

About the author and writing this series:
Suzy Ayers writes across many genres and this is the second book in The Before World Series. She attempts to write characters with depth, many times with pain and heartache. The ELEMENTS – The Before World Series has already been written and she is working on producing the next book “The Sixth Element”.
She writes in a fashion where it may seem archaic (gasp), she writes everything by hand and has many notebooks. She never plans a story and yet somehow it unfolds: the plots, the characters and the happily ever after endings. She is a true romantic at heart so despite the pain and heartbreak through the series know that there is happiness for Sara.
Suzy has also written a plethora of other books and short stories this year. If you enjoy Erotic fiction or Contemporary Romance with some heat please click the author links below.

Buy Links for Sara’s Awakening

AMAZON | B&N | SMASHWORDS
CREATESPACE

Buy Links for Miranda’s Amulet

AMAZON | AMAZON UK | B&N | SMASHWORDS
CREATESPACE

Anyone ever get caught watching?? I wrote this little short titled "Caught in the Act" Where our innocent Sara, from my ELEMENTS series, watches her boyfriends brother...well let's just say he isn't just kissing someone...lol You can check it out yourself! It's a ‪‎freebie‬! And don't forget to check out all the other authors and leave a raving review too!

SEXY HOLIDAY BITES --FREE!!

AMAZON | SMASH

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Signed paperback up for grabs at my #event! #fantasy #romance

10/2/2014

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Click here for my FACEBOOK EVENT!

There are other authors participating in take overs. Gift cards, ebooks, and free books...plus I will be giving away a newly re-edited book. My Sara's Awakening which is my fantasy romance series. It is 282 pages of magic and deception...and it is only the first of 4 book in the ELEMENTS series. It is an $11.81 value.

I will be giving it away in a game to a very lucky winner. So come, participate and invite friends.

Book Description:
Apocalyptic storms have reshaped the Earth, forcing people to seek refuge from the newly imposed monarchy run by The Rosen Family. After a chance meeting with the Prince, Sara is forced to live separated from her family, inside the castle with The Rosen Family. Armed with powers she does not know she possesses, and bearing a mystical tattoo on her shoulder, Sara learns her dark dreams are hauntingly real premonitions.
Determined to figure out what is true, what is real, and if magic exists again, she must navigate through the lies and deception, while she explores the question of love. Could her first love be her true love? Or will his Jekyll and Hyde personality push her away? Join the 19-year-old Sara in this sci-fi, futuristic, romantic fantasy… in the name of love, loss, and magic.

EBook links – Sara’s Awakening (Book 1)
$2.99

Amazon
US | UK (paperback only) | CA | AU

Smashwords | B&N

In case you just you like it in digital.

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Facebook EVENT. 9/30-10/4 Book signing in Worcester MA at the DCU Center

9/30/2014

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I'll have my three paperbacks on hand at my book signing for sale! I am super thrilled for my first book signing event ever.

I will be bringing my first two books in my ELEMENTS series and Fantasy Encounter with a Dom, my first BDSM erotic romance.

MY EVENT LINK CLICK HERE!

PS there will be freebies and other authors joining me!

COMING SOON!!!

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I have been reported by a Facebook "friend" #competition among #authors?

9/19/2014

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So I have been reported for a picture that I barely think registers on the nudity scale. I have seen so much more. I mean I have seem my breasts (gasp). ....looks around...

But that's honestly not what has me upset. People have seen a rise lately and I have been told it is probably a rival author. I am very well known for promotion. I promote everyone and all genres.

My friend list is small on purpose. I don't friend easily. And this year in fact I have probably only friended 10 people and blocked at least 3 of those. This shows you how skeezy it can get or just plain inappropriate.

I don't put up with BS. I call people out: frauds, plagiarist, etc. I think as an author it is something we should be doing. Warning others of" policy changes and if need be the losers/stalkers and anything else book related. Raise each other up. Help each other out.

I have always said my skills are varied but there are times where I need someone to help me. No author, especially in the Indie world (but also in the trad pub world) can do it alone. Gone are the days that you have someone pushing and marketing your book. You first need to make a name for yourself.

And so in regards to that. My pages are really quite tame and I do that on purpose. I don't need all this drama and BS. In fact I plain an simple hate drama BS.

This report was because someone literally went through all my Suzy Ayers posts (and there are a lot) all the way back to December to find this picture. It is a promotion that I did that visually shows a sex scene in my story.

PS I did a test and not sure that this person knows this. I posted the picture for only my "friends". And My S Ayers pages was also reported. That narrows you down, coupled with the fact that you are new. GOODBYE!

ON A PERSONAL NOTE:
In fact the income from my books was literally feeding my children at one point. I have since reached out and found other ways, but still I am struggling. People need to stop finding things on purpose to be hurtful of others. We need more good. More nice. More pay it forward. Not vindictive or hateful.

I want to thank all my readers and supporters.

Suzy

Oh by the way..if you by any chance want to read that HOT story. Here are the links to that FREE book. Be sure to leave a review and check out all the awesome authors too.

Thanks so much!

Amazon | Amazon UK | B&N | Smashwords

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release event on Facebook #free books 9/19

9/18/2014

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Please come on over tomorrow September 19th for giveaways and fun at a release party on Facebook.

https://www.facebook.com/events/528393953972711/?ref=notif&notif_t=plan_user_joined

Join right now so you wont forget!!

I will be giving away copies of my first piece of short erotic fiction, Cristal Blue. All you have to do is answer a simple question. Everyone gets a copy of this baby!

Also one lucky winner will receive a copy of my newly re-edited romantic fantasy Sara's Awakening! This book went through a huge overhaul and the series is filled with: magic, deceit, love, heartache and death.

***I am thrilled to say that both book one and two are now in print! I will be at a book signing in Worcester MA at the DCU Center on Oct 4th with these on hand!!***